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Week Of April 16th – April 22nd 2018
Card: Six of Swords
There is someone out there who’s been looking for a change. You may be stuck in a rut. You may have never fully connected to the place you live. You may be unfulfilled in your current career or personal life. You’ve been thinking about pulling up roots and finding a change of scenery.
The time to stop thinking is NOW! The time to start packing those bags is NOW! The time to change your point of view is NOW! Make that change! It’s going to be SO much easier than you think it might be. The Universe is behind you changing your mind and your locale. The future is better served for you someplace else. You already know this. You’ve known this for the longest time. So what’s keeping you? Pack your bags and get the hell outta here! Send me a postcard!
In-Depth Analysis: In mid writing this week about how great it is to have a card that doesn’t have a “dark” side to it, spirit said to me “Not so fast. We have something to talk about that may not be the most bright shiny happy topic in the world.” Dammit! I was SO hoping to bring good and peaceful and happy news this week! Why must it always be so deep and painful and dark? Why can’t it be just once rainbows and unicorns and cotton candy and endless summer? Dammit! *sigh* But I must follow what spirit is telling me to write, so here goes.
There’s someone out there who has been taking care of a loved one as he or she is making their slow transition to the other side. You work night and day to make sure your loved one is comfortable and at peace. You do everything in your power to make sure your loved one is well taken care of. And by and large it’s not a burden. It’s not a chore. In fact, you feel it an honor and a privilege to be able to take care of the person you love as he or she is closing this chapter of their lives. You love this person with all your heart and you would do anything for this person. (I’m getting it’s a spouse.)
Please understand the person you’re taking care of knows what you’re doing for them. And they may not be able to show it but they are so grateful for the work you’re doing. They’re so grateful you love them enough to take care of them when they can’t take care of themselves. They wish you wouldn’t take on so much and worry about how you’ll be after they’re gone, but for the most part they are grateful to you. And they love you so much for it. They can’t believe they lucked into marrying you. They sometimes don’t feel like they deserve the love you’re giving them. They sometimes feel guilty for causing all this thankless work you do. But mostly, they’re full of gratitude.
You should also know their transition will be a peaceful one. It may not seem like it, because their day to day life is such a struggle. And their actual physical passing may not be the calmest when it happens. But if you’re able to be quiet in that moment and actually see beyond the pain, look into their eyes and truly see them and they you, you’ll make their passing easier. They will pass in love.
And if you’re unable to be with them when they pass, it’s important to tell them whenever you’re with them how much you love them. It’s important they hear you’re not taking care of them out of a sense of obligation, rather you’re taking care of them because you love them. You’d do anything for them. It’s important to not just do, but also to say. Because by telling them how you really feel about them, it will make their passing easier as well.
And when they do finally pass, it will be smooth sailing to the other side. Once the body and spirit let go of each other the passage to the other side is so easy. It’s seamless. It’s smooth as silk. There is no fear, only peace. And love. So much love. Love all around. From all sides, love embraces them as they move across the veil. Their angels, guides, and ancestors lead them into the light. Once there, loved ones all gather round to welcome the newest addition to heaven. Tears of reunion and joy abound as friends, family and loved ones show up to welcome home their sibling.
Finally, no matter what difficulties your loved one faced while he or she was here on earth, all that pain is removed once they cross into heaven. They are released from all worry, all pain, all frustration and despair. All that’s left is love. Unconditional love. They are free. And it’s wonderful.
Bottom Line: This week has been all about transitions. A different point of view. A different locale. A different career. A different personal life. Going from life to death to everlasting life. Whatever transition we’re experiencing this week, please know it’s going to be a lot easier than we could ever imagine it would. It’s going to be light. It’s going to be breezy. It’s going to be like cruisin’ with Smokey Robinson. What a lovely ride! So pack those bags and let’s get going! You can thank me later.
Have a FANTASTIC week, everybody!
Song Of The Week: Smokey Robinson “Cruisin’”
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Week Of April 9th — April 15th
Card: Knight of Cups (R)
“Love, love, hooray for love! Who could ever be blasé for love? Make this a night for love! If we have to fight, let’s fight for love!” — from the 1948 song by Harold Arlen and Leo Robin, “Hooray For Love!”
Quick Analysis: The Knight of Cups in the reverse position. When this card comes up in a reading it oftentimes can mean the end of the honeymoon. It can mean you’re slowly moving away from the “wine and roses” phase of the relationship into the more practical day to day phase of being in a relationship. This is when the relationship faces its first challenge.
Ain’t love grand? At the beginning of a relationship, it’s all butterflies and giddiness, sunshine and springtime, lightness and love. It’s wonderful. It’s the best feeling ever to be in love. To be in the first throes of love. Where nothing feels wrong with the world as long as you’re together. It’s a beautiful thing.
But what happens when those feelings begin to fade? In every relationship there is a natural progression from that all consuming fire of love to the slow and steady burn of a healthy relationship. Sure, every once in a while it’s a good thing to stoke the flames of passion in order to keep the relationship vibrant and alive. But most relationships settle into that slow and steady burn that’s more practical for a long term relationship. It’s been said that intense romantic feeling of love only last a the most three years.
And then what?
The Knight of Cups in the reverse position is telling us we have reached a point of decision. That all encompassing flame of passion has died down. He’s not giving you flowers anymore. She’s not writing you love sonnets anymore. The love you have for each other hasn’t changed. It’s just you’re no longer making those overt overtures that used to be the norm. You’ve settled into a pattern and a flow.
The only problem is one or both of you is actually craving that kind of attention you’re no longer receiving. You miss the mixtapes. You miss the love songs. You miss the random “I’m thinking about you” notes in your inbox. You miss getting flowers because it’s Tuesday.
The Knight of Cups Reversed is gently advising you that maybe it’s time for some open and honest communication between you and your partner. Perhaps it may be time to stoke those flames. And who knows? Maybe your partner is feeling the same way you are and you both can take conscious steps to put some more passion into your love life. I wish you well on that journey.
In-Depth Analysis: Just a little bit of a forewarning: We’re about to get into some deeper and darker territory now. I’m being led to share that sometimes when the Knight of Cups is reversed, it could mean the time has come to see people the way they really are. To see the truth behind the mask. To see a person honestly. And sometimes that real person that’s hiding behind the mask is not the greatest person in the world.
I’m getting really strongly there is someone out there whose been duped. One of you has met someone who was everything you asked for in a mate. He or she was everything you ever dreamed in a partner. He or she checked off all the boxes. However, slowly but surely that façade has begun to chip away. And the real person underneath is not a person you should be aligning yourself with.
There may be abuse. It’s mostly psychological abuse. He or she is telling you that you’re worthless. Unlovable. Unworthy. Ugly. Fat. Dirty. Stupid. Moronic. Retarded. Silly. He or she is threatening to leave you. They wonder aloud why they stay with you in the first place and you should feel lucky he or she has stayed this long. It’s relentless. It’s non-stop. Every day you wake up all tied in knots emotionally because you know today will be yet another day where the abuse will not let up.
And then there are those few and far between days where he or she is kind, loving and doting. They make you feel pretty. They make you feel worthy. They hold you up as the king or queen you really are. For a brief moment in time, they make you feel loved. Which is even more confusing because the very next day they flip the switch again and you’re back to being the scum underneath their feet. They don’t physically hit you, but their words hit harder than any fist could ever swing.
If the abuse isn’t verbal abuse, it could be through neglect. They take you for granted. They treat you as a meal ticket. They treat you as a place to live. They treat you as transportation. They treat you as a person whose sole purpose is to take care of their needs. They could care less about you otherwise. They ignore you and keep you at arms length unless they want something from you.
If any of the above is you, I encourage you to know you are better than this. You are worth more than this. You deserve better than this. But only YOU can decide that for yourself. No one else can make that determination for you. You must make that choice yourself.
And let’s not ignore the fact that loving yourself is in fact a CHOICE. We have to consciously love ourselves in a very real and tangible way. We have to take out time each day, sometimes multiple times a day, to remind ourselves of our worth. We must CHOOSE to make ourselves our top priority. Because if we don’t, no one else will either.
You are worth better. You are lovable. You are strong. You are wonderful. You are beautiful. You deserve someone who sees you as the God or Goddess you are and treat you as such. I encourage you today to see yourself as the most loving and lovable person on the planet. Because you are.